惩罚与抱抱 爱与管教的一体两面（Punishment and embrace, love and discipline）.docVIP

惩罚与抱抱 爱与管教的一体两面（Punishment and embrace, love and discipline） Once, when I went to a video on TV, I talked about the topic: proper discipline.. The world the editor Qi Yu family speak a word that impressed me is: whether it is? A kind of parenting style, the most important thing is to let the children feel the discipline behind parents love , not only punish . Behind the discipline is love. Every time I talk about parenting, a lot of people ask me, cant you beat a child? Or do you disapprove of corporal punishment? Honestly, I think to do a completely not angry, not angry, not hands-on parents really hard, people will inevitably have emotional control, not to mention the childs mother to stay together morning and night. In addition, disciplining children sometimes requires punishment to establish boundaries. However, whether this generation when we often taste bamboo shoots fried shredded pork, or is now called not beat and scold the love of education , it is important that parents must let children feel the discipline behind? love , rather than indifference, isolation, revenge, or with love in the name of their desires but starting point is the own fake love adults. Children are weak. Adults sometimes give vent to momentary emotions, or use discipline as an excuse, in essence, to vent their anger on children; or even adults who are unbalanced in their attitudes and use words or physical punishment to torture their children...... These are the no love discipline, it is easy to let the child feel wronged, grievances, discontent, anger. Your children grow up, seriously injured parent-child relationship, in such a situation, it will be not at all surprising kinslaying. But, in punishing the child, how to let the child know, you love him, good for him? This is not really easy. Especially in the child being scolded, often mistakenly think that you love: to obediently?, one hundred test points, according to the mothers request to do, a good practice, homework...... Mothe