如何从言行举止看清彼此心理距离（How to see each others psychological distance from words and deeds）.docVIP

如何从言行举止看清彼此心理距离（How to see each others psychological distance from words and deeds） In daily interpersonal communication, we always want to get emotional resonance with others through their own efforts, and narrow the psychological distance between them and others. But we often make mistakes because of one or two wrong gestures. So, how can we narrow the psychological distance between us and each other and deal with the negative body movements of the other party in time? [psychological knowledge] sense of distance in interpersonal communication Everything must have a degree, more than this degree, it will backfire. Interpersonal communication, distance is also this truth. Psychologists used to do experiments in a book room in a university where a psychologist was sitting next to the only reader when there was only one reader in the reading room. In this way, psychologists look for a 80 chance to sit next to 80 different people. It turned out that none of the 80 could stand in a reading room with only two readers in it, and a stranger sat next to himself. When psychologists are close to them, more people choose to find a place far away from psychologists and sit down and even ask, what do you want to do? Its obvious that psychologists sit next to them and make them uncomfortable. With the principle of psychology to explain is that everyone has the self-protection consciousness, they sat close to psychologists behavior has invaded their personal space, the space feeling violated aroused their discomfort and insecurity, so they choose to escape (leave) or offensive (question). Thus, in the process of interpersonal communication, the distance is not moderate, to a great extent, it will cause the other party to escape (leave) or attack (attack). Obviously, improper distance is detrimental to interpersonal communication. Adjusting mental distance with spatial distance In dealing with people, we can make use of the space distance to adjust the psychological distance of the