为什么说我们都有内在脆弱受伤的小孩呢（Why do we all have inner, vulnerable, injured children）.doc

为什么说我们都有内在脆弱受伤的小孩呢（Why do we all have inner, vulnerable, injured children） Why do we all have inner, vulnerable, injured children? A lot of people often say, my childhood home is very happy, not been scolded by parents, and no lack of material, I am very warm, and I am also very good, I have not been hurt..... Wait, but we all have an inner vulnerability, a child who dominates our lives. Western psychologists divide the energy images that people will experience into the following three layers: Innermost layer: essential layer The innermost layer is the core layer, the essence and core of life We come to this world: the state of innocence, trust, vitality, natural love, no protective layer, we completely naked, vulnerable to the world, no identity, no name, address, I am me. But in the process of growth, we will suffer more or less trauma and restriction, so there is a protective layer, when the protection layer appeared, we lost the original innocence and beauty. The loss of such a state is not unfortunate, for it presents the challenge and potential to change the state of innocence and beauty from a state of unconsciousness into a state of consciousness. It is sad that we have never found the good thing again Intermediate layer: vulnerable layer The middle layer is our vulnerable layer of injury, that is, vulnerable, injured children When we were young, we experienced some traumatic experiences, not a perfect growing child. There are different sources of trauma, perhaps: Energy is rejected, repressed, petrified, lack of warmth, tension, abuse, by comparison, has been criticized by pressure; The greatest humiliation of these wounds is not being supported by the original self, but restricted to the expectations and demands of others (parents, teachers, the community as a whole). With these constraints, our innocence, beauty, love, trust..... Begin to disintegrate and cease to exist. 1 innocence becomes worry 2 trust becomes distrust 3 natural revelation becomes menta