给自己和别人带来希望和意外斩获-机会制造者Kare.docVIP

【TED】凯儿˙安德森: 给自己和别人带来希望与意外斩获－机会制造者 Kare Anderson: Be an opportunity maker I grew up diagnosed as phobically shy, 我从小就有社交恐惧症 and like at least 20 other people in a room of this size, 这样的空间 大约20人 I was a stutterer. 就能让以前的我结巴语塞 Do you dare raise your hand? 更别提举手了 根本不可能 And it sticks with us. 这种困扰如影随形 It really does stick with us, 你走到哪 它就跟到哪 because when we are treated that way, 当大家对你的存在视若无睹 we feel invisible sometimes, 你会开始感觉自己是隐形人 or talked around and at. 而别人都在你背后窃窃私语 And as I started to look at people, 后来我仔细去观察周遭的人 which is mostly all I did, 一直以来我都只敢默默观察 I noticed that some people re