家庭教育对儿童身心健康的影响.doc

摘要 家庭教育是教育系统的一个不可分割的重要组成部分，它涉及儿童今后的发展。因此，父母在家庭中的作用是重要的，他们是孩子的第一和终身老师。我国自古就有重视家庭教育的优良传统,例如古代的“孟母三迁”、“岳母刺字”。不仅是中国，外国也是如此，美国爱迪生和著名的数学家、物理学家麦克斯韦等家庭教育故事,都说明了家庭教育在古今中外家庭教育发展史上起着十分重要的作用。 在中国，许多家长注重孩子的考试分数，看轻孩子的学习能力。许多家长把分数当成孩子智力发展水平的唯一尺度，也当成其学习能力强弱的尺度。分数与智力水平不是一回事，分数只反映智力水平的一部分。分数与学习能力也不是一回事。“高分低能”就是只抓分数不发展能力所致。许多家长只要求孩子从小拿高分，却忽视了孩子思维能力的培养，这样会使孩子学习没有后劲。许多孩子小学成绩优秀，越到高年级，成绩越差，就是学习能力缺乏培养的结果。 通过本文的写作，笔者分析了当今不同的家庭教育方式及所产生的影响。希望通过本文的一些教育方法的事例，让家长更明确的知道如何更好的教育自己的子女，正视家庭教育的重要性。通过倾听和适当的赞美给予孩子鼓励，用恰当的方式来批评孩子，让孩子从小建立起自信心，是孩子更加健康快乐的成长。 关键词:家庭教育；作用；影响；建议 ⅰ Abstract Family education is an integral and important part of the education system, it relates to the development of children in the future. So the parents play an important role in the family, they are the first and lifelong teacher of the children. We have attached great importance to family education since ancient times, such as ‘Mencius’ mother moved her home three times to better her son’s education’, ‘tattooing in Yue Fei’. Not only in china, there also have such stories in other countries. Edison from American and Maxwell who was a famous mathematician and physicist, their parents also realize the importance of the family education. All these stories show that family education plays an important role at all times. In China, many parents pay more attention to scores of the children, ignore their learning ability. Many parents consider scores vital and regard it as the only criterion to measure their children’ intellectual development and the learning ability. But scores and mental level are two different concepts. “High scores but low abilities” are the consequence only to stress the scores not to develop capacity. Many parents only hope children can get high marks, but neglect to cultivate children thinking ability, so that the children would have no learning stamina. Many children are outstanding in primary school, but when he in high grade, the performance is bad because of lack of learning ability. Through the writing o