二大学生常见的人格障碍与调适_精品.ppt

But the water has the colors and the wonderful smell of coffee. 但是那锅水的颜色已经改变并散发出诱人的咖啡香味。 The coffee powder has disappeared.而咖啡豆不见了。 * Now think about life. 好了，现在我们回到生活中来。 Life is not always easy. 生活不总是一帆风顺的。 Life is not always comfortable. 也不总是风平浪静的。 Sometimes life is very hard. 有时我们会碰到很多困难。 * We work very hard but get few results. 经常会我们付出很多但得到的很少。 What happens when we face difficulties? 那么，当我们遇到困境时，我们会怎样呢？ Things don’t happen like we wish.事情不会总向着我们希望的方向发展。 People don’t treat us like we hope.周围的人群也不总是向我们所希望的一样对待我们。 * Now think about the pots. The boiling water is like the problems of life.这些煮沸的水就像我们在生活中遇到的困境一样。 * We can be like the carrots.我们也许像胡萝卜。 We go in tough and strong.一开始是坚硬的、强壮的 We come out soft and weak.后来却变得软弱。 * We get very tired. We lose hope. We give up. 我们丧失了希望，我们选择了放弃？ There is no more fighting spirit.不再有向上的意识，进取的精神？ NO! Don’t be like the carrots! 不，不要像胡萝卜一样！ * We can be like the eggs.我们也许会像鸡蛋一样。 We start with a soft and sensitive heart.一开始有着柔软而敏感的心…… We end up very hard and unfeeling inside. 在生活的压力下，却逐渐变得强硬而又冷漠…… * We hate others. We don’t like ourselves.我们不再友好，我们敌对任何人。 We become hard-hearted. There is no warm feeling, only bitterness. 这里不再有温暖，只有苦闷、冷漠、悲愤 Don’t be like the eggs! 不要像鸡蛋！ * We can be like the coffee beans. 我们也许像咖啡豆！ The water does not change the coffee powder. 沸水没有改变咖啡豆！ The coffee powder changes the water! 咖啡豆改变了沸水！ * The water has become different because of the coffee powder.沸水因为咖啡豆而变得不一样！ See it.看一下！ Smell it.闻一下！ Drink it.尝一口！ The hotter the water, the better the taste. 水的温度越高，咖啡的香味就越加醇厚！ * We can be like the coffee beans. 我们应该像咖啡豆！ We make something good from the difficulties we face.我们转变了困境。 We learn new things.我们有了新的进步！ * We have new knowledge, new skills, new abilities.我们有了新的知识、新的技能、新的习惯！ We grow in experience.我们在经历中成长！ * We make the world around us better. 我们使我们周围的世界更加美好！ * To succeed, we must try… and try again. We must believe in what we are doing. We must not give up. We must be patient. We must keep pushing. 为