身体视野下已婚同志地异性婚姻.docVIP

PAGE \* MERGEFORMAT 25 身体视野下已婚同志的异性婚姻 社会学专业学生 李 胜 指导教师 姚兆余 摘要：本文试图从身体的维度展现已婚同志的异性婚姻经历。文章首先从作为“性”的身体的视角出发，考察了已婚同志婚姻生活中主体性的性体验、婚姻生活中性别化的身体，接着从已婚同志的双重衣柜、婚姻亲密关系中的区隔、婚姻中的网络时空、婚姻中多方关系的博弈四个角度阐释已婚同志作为“实践”的身体。笔者试图突破二元论的身体观，从社会文化等权力关系脉络中捕捉已婚同志婚姻生活中身体的能动性、历史性和流变性。笔者发现异性恋霸权抑或是权力的运作逻辑造成了已婚同志的困境。笔者认为只有发挥身体的能动性，关注身体与身体之间的联系，才能察觉和抗拒任何形式的霸权。 关键词：身体；已婚同志；异性婚姻；具身化 The Experience of Heterosexually Married Gaymen/Lesbians: a Body Perspective Student Majoring in Sociology LI Sheng Tutor YAO Zhao-yu Abstract：This study aimed to research the experience of heterosexually married gaymen/lesbians from the dimension of body. First of all, the article investigated the subjective sexual experience and the gendered body of the married gaymen/lesbians as the body of sexuality. Then, I tried to interpret the practical body from four perspectives-caught between two closets, distinction in intimate relationship, internet in marriage, the gaming relationships in marriage. I attempted to escape the dualism of the body perspective, and capture the agency, historical, and dynamic body of the married gaymen/lesbians from the context of social and cultural power-in-relationship.I found the heterosexual matrix or the logic of the power making the gaymen/lesbians in a dilemma. I believe that only let the body play an agency role, and we concern about the relationships between bodies, we can detect and resist any form of hegemony. Key words: Body; Married gaymen; Heterosexually marriage; embodiment 引 言 同性恋作为一个日渐显见的社群，已经逐渐为民众熟悉并接纳。然而，对于该群体中的已婚同志的家庭婚姻生活，并没有引起学术界的关注和研究。本文试图从身体的维度来展现已婚同志的异性婚姻经历。 文献回顾 （一）“身体”研究 “身体”(body)在社会科学中曾经缺席在场，究其原因，大体与五个方面有关：一是本体论上源于西方传统身心不平等二元论的影响；二是认识论上源于社会学的非生物主义假设；三是方法论上源于社会学的反原子主义的整体论；[1]4,89-93四是历史因素的影响。人文学科的发展实质与社会的变迁密切相关——社会类型从传统的工业社会迈入后工业社会，个体主义兴起，社会科学的关注点也随之转变；[2]340五是经典大师作为男性的具体存在也部分促成了身体的缺席。[3]36 而身体的回归则与深刻的社会现实背景相关[3]39-41。二战以来，西方社会现实生活发生了深刻而又全面的变化（基督教清教主义正统思想的式微以及大众消费主义的盛行），并体现在社会运动与思潮上（如妇女运动和酷儿运动）。特别是科技的进步（如人工授精等），使得人类向彻底的自我控制和自