2021年最新TED英语演讲：培养出成功的孩子.docxVIP

资料来源：来自本人网络整理！祝您工作顺利！ PAGE 1 PAGE 1 2021年最新TED英语演讲：培养出成功的孩子 　　给孩子过高的期望，事无巨细的管理孩子的生活，这样的哺育方式并无好处。Julie，这位前斯坦福新生学院院长，用热情和诙谐的幽默，讲解并描述了家长不应当用成果和考试分数来定义孩子的胜利，而应当专注在一个传统的想法：赐予无条件的爱。下面是我为大家搜集关于TED英语演讲：培育出胜利的孩子，欢送借鉴参考。   　　演说题目：如何在不过度管教的状况下，培育出胜利的孩子!  　　演说者：Julie Lythcott-Haims  　　演讲稿  　　You know, I didnt set out to be a parenting expert. In fact, Im not very interested in parenting, per Se. Its just that theres a certain style of parenting these days that is kind of messing up kids, impending their chances to develop into themselves.  　　我并不准备成为育儿专家。事实上，我对育儿本身也不感爱好。只是这些天有某种育儿风格的出现，是不利于孩子成长的，而且阻碍了他们进展自己的时机。  　　Theres a certain style of parenting these days thats getting in the way. I guess what Im saying is, we spend a lot of time being very concerned about parents who arent involved enough in the lives of their kids and their education or their upbringing, and rightly so.  　　某种育儿风格的出现正阻碍着孩子的成长。各位我要说的是，我们把大量的时间花在关怀哪些父母没有足够的参加孩子的生活中，他们的训练或者抚养中，理应如此。  　　But at the other end of the spectrum, theres a lot of harm going on there as well, where parents feel a kid cant be successful unless the parent is protecting and preventing at every turn, and hovering over every happening, and micromanaging every moment, and steering their kid towards some small subset of colleges and careers.  　　但从另外一个极端来说，这样做会有许多的害处，父母认为他们的孩子不会胜利，除非有父母事事的爱护和阻挡，对每件事的权衡，围观管理每个时刻并引导他们对大学和职业的选择。  　　But not just the grades, the scores, but the accolades and the awards and the sports, the activities, the leadership. We tell our kids, dont just join a club, start a club, because colleges want to see that. And check the box for community service. I mean, show the colleges you care about others.  　　但不仅是成果和分数，更是获得的表扬和奖项，还有运动活动上的，指导力上的荣誉。我们告知他们， 别参加俱乐部，自己创立了一个，因为大学想看到这个，然后检查信箱关于社区效劳的信息。我的意思是，展现给大学看你是关怀别的。  　　And all of this is done to some hoped-for degree of perfection. We expect our kids to perform at a level of perfection. We were never asked to perform