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Honesty key to dorm conflicts 从复旦投毒案解读室友关系 中文 英文 双语 2013-04-25????来源：Zhang Chunmei 21st Century Staff ???? 阅读数：8397 导读：近日，复旦大学投毒案得到社会广泛关注。很多人开始思考中国教育到底哪里出了问题？到底是怎样的矛盾才会导致室友相残？又该如何营造和谐友爱的寝室关系？Li Xiongfeng and his roommates had all fallen asleep in the quiet night. But then his phone suddenly started ringing loudly and woke everybody up. One of his roommates was annoyed and Li was not happy about the disturbance either.夜深人静，李雄峰（音译）和室友们都进入了梦乡。但突然间他的手机铃声响起，吵醒了所有人。一位室友因此恼火不已，就连李雄峰自己也很不高兴。 “I didn’t expect such a trivial matter could sour my relationship with my roommates,” said Li, 20, a sophomore law major at South China Normal University.“我没想到这么点小事儿就会影响我和室友的关系。”就读于华南师范大学法律专业大二年级，20岁的李雄峰说道。Last week, Fudan University issued a statement regarding the preliminary police report on the poisoning of a student by his roommate that shocked the nation.复旦投毒案震惊全国上下。上周，复旦大学就警方的初步报告发表了声明。 “Trivial matters in daily life” were blamed for the tragedy, in which 27-year-old Huang Yang was killed.在这桩悲剧中，27岁的黄洋被室友杀害，而这一切的元凶，正是“日常生活中的琐碎小事”。 According to experts, it’s the small things that can cause serious problems for dormitory relations. As their first lesson at college, students should learn to compromise when living with their peers and be tolerant toward them.专家表示，正是这些小事会对室友关系构成重大危机。作为大学的第一课，学生们应该学会与同伴相处时，如何做出妥协与包容。 Dormitory relations are among the top concerns for students who enjoyed being the focal point of their family in high school. Only 43 percent of college students in Wuhan, which has more than 1 million college students, are happy with their dormitory relations, according to a report by Wuhan Yangtze Business University released in January.对于高中时被全家人捧在手心的学生们而言，寝室关系成为他们最担心的问题之一。武汉长江工商学院于今年一月发布的一份报告显示，在武汉当地超过一百万的大学生中，只有43%对自己的寝室关系感到满意。 “This communal way of living is new to students, the majority of whom are single children. Many of them expect people to change for them, not the other way around,” said Tan Mali, deputy Party secretary at South China Normal University.“