英语北师大版选修8 Unit23 Conflict Lesson 3 Conflict Resolution PPT1.ppt

* * Read the questionnaire, then match the verbs below with those underlined in the text. Criticise, discuss, get revenge, irritate,make, return, say Ok,,stop liking,suggest,take, tolerate, make a lot of noise 1.You’re angry with your neightbours because they wake you up early on Sunday mornings. Do you: a)Talk it over with them and put forward a solution? b) Get ypur own back by making a lot of noise late at night? c)Put cotton wool in your ears when you go to bed? 2.Your sistere is always going off with your things and never giving them back . She comes to your room and asks to borrow your best T-shirt for a party. Do you: a)Refuse to give it to her and explain why? b)Say no and tell her to get out and never ask for anything again? c) Give in and lend it ,but tell her to give it back? 3.A shop assistant is rude to you. Do you: a)Calmly explain that you are a customer and so you expect good manners? b) Kick up a fuss and ask to see the manager? c) put up with it but never go back there again? 4.A friend is always getting at you about the clothes you wear. Do you: a)Tell him/her in private that it is really getting to you? b)Make fun of his/her colthes in front of everyone? c)Say nothing but go off him/her? 1.talk…over(discuss) , put forward(suggest), get your own back(get revenge) 2.going off with (take), give in (say OK), give…back (return) 3.kick up a fuss (make a lot of noise), put up with (tolerated) 4.getting at (criticise),getting to (irritate), going off (stop liking) Now answer the questionnaire saying you would react in the situations. Then check your answers on page 102 to see how assertive your are. Answers “a” show you are assertive. You are self-confident and try to resolve conflict situations in a sensible and constructive way. Answers “b” show that you are very assertive but you probably react too aggressviely to conflict situations. Answers “c” show you are not assertive. You perhaps lack self-confid