英语 母女关系介绍.pptxVIP

American ideas about the relationships between mother and daughter in different stage Phase 1: The Itty-Bitty Critter Years阶段一：小不点儿时期There are few things more wonderful than holding your baby girl for the first time. When my daughter was born, I intuitively knew how to care for her. Yes, she needed nutrition, warmth, and rest. But she also needed my presence.没有什么比第一次将你的宝贝女儿抱在手里更美妙的了。我女儿一出生，我就直觉般地知道该怎样去照顾她。没错，她需要我的营养，温暖和庇护。她也同样需要我的陪伴。That undivided attention cannot be overlooked. It is through our love and tenderness that our daughters first learn how to form a solid foundation of trust.一定要做到一心一意。正是通过我们的爱与温柔，我们的女儿们才能首先如何建立坚实的信任基础。Phase 2: The Idealization Stage阶段二：偶像化阶段Post-toddler, but preteen, many daughters become enamored with their mothers. They’re in awe of their moms, who, in their minds, are glamorous, gorgeous, and wise. While inherently independent, during the ages of five to ten, the daughter had a habit of mimicking the actions and behaviors.很多女儿长到比幼儿大，却又比青少年小的阶段，会变得迷恋她们的母亲。她们敬畏自己的母亲。在她们心中，母亲魅力无比，光芒四射，且聪慧睿智。尽管女孩儿天性独立，自五岁道十岁期间，她都习惯于模仿母亲很多行为。Allowing her to make decisions on her own, if in her best interest, will permit her to become self-reliant while ensuring that you, as the mother, remain the primary force of love and authority in her life.如果能对她有好处的话，有时候允许她自己做决定能让她学会自立，同时又保证你的爱依然占主导地位，保证你在她生活中的权威。Phase 3: The Preteen Years阶段三：前青春期阶段From roughly eleven to thirteen years old, the daughters we had known so well—those little girls who refused to be away from us for any solid length of time when they were small—begin to separate from us emotionally, physically, and mentally.大概从11岁到13岁之间，我们所熟知的女儿-----那些小时候一秒钟也不想离开我们的女儿----开始从情感上，生理上以及心理上与我们有了隔阂。Daughters begin to identify more with their peers than their parents, opting for weekends with friends over Saturdays with their folks, and relying on their peers’ opinions more than their mother’s.女儿们开始更多地与同龄人而不是父母进行比较，更倾向于与朋友们享受周末而不是与家里的亲戚过周六，更听信同龄人的意见而不是母亲的意见。In general, during this phase, females become more and mo