性情外向的人若何快速晋升人际来往能力？（国外英文资料）.docVIP

性格内向的人如何快速提升人际交往能力？（国外英文资料）How can introverted people improve their interpersonal skills quickly?When a person lacks the ability to do something, the first thing that comes to mind is the ability to learn the skill and the ability to improve that aspect. In fact, one person is incompetent in some way, and more importantly, the problem of ideology is that there is no right belief. If you dont change your mind and set the right beliefs, even if you learn a lot, it wont work.For example, when someone is too introverted and doesnt have a good relationship, he will try to learn interpersonal skills. Learning to smile, listen, celebrate, be grateful, remember the names of others, and so on, think you have these skills to improve your relationships. But its not that simple.The master of interpersonal communication tells us to be loving. But too much love will allow you to accommodate each other and tolerate each other. There is a limit to human tolerance. When you cant tolerate a certain amount of patience, there will be a total explosion, which will undermine your relationship with others.Good relationships require courage as well as love. Love makes you care for each other. Courage makes you willing to express yourself. Only love and courage balance can lead to good relationships.(a)Many introverts fail to have good relationships because of lack of love and lack of courage. So the interpersonal skills of the masters such as Carnegie are not very helpful.So where does courage come from?Like a person to need to rely on their personal success, to have self-confidence, a person to have a good interpersonal relationship need trust others, also have the trust of others.Some people in childhood is often criticized by parents, teachers, reprimanded, or even punishment, or classmates, partners, bullying, deception, so have not been able to develop to the credibility of others, also dont want to associate with people when he grows up. But now youre an adult, and no one else can bu