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好人卡这样发：揭秘男女提分手时最爱用的理由 You know when your relationship is not working out. But how do you tell your partner they are dumped? A new poll reveals just how women and men call time on a love affair. 当你们的恋爱关系走不下去的时候你通常会察觉，但你如何告诉你的另一半他/她被甩了呢？最近有一项调查揭示了男女到底是如何结束恋爱关系的。 Dating site SeekingA asked 1,000 of its male and female members why and how they would dump a partner. And the results reveal big differences in the sexes over how to give a loved one the push – and the reasons they give for the split. 婚恋网站seekingarrangement 调查了1000名男性和女性，问他们为什么会如何与伴侣分手。调查结果显示，在向恋爱对象提出分手的方式和理由上，男人和女人的表现大不相同。 Women are far more concerned about letting a man down gently – trying to soften the blow with emotional reasons for the split. 女人更倾向于婉转地拒绝男人，使用一些感性的分手理由来降低对男人的打击。 Going against the?stereotype?of the commitment-phobe male, the most popular line used by women in ending a relationship is: I’m not ready for commitment yet. The second most popular is: This is going too fast for me. 传统观点可能认为男人提分手最典型的情况是害怕承诺，但其实“我还有准备好给你承诺” 是女人在分手时最爱说的理由。女人最爱用的第二个的理由：“这对我来说太快了”。 Interestingly, money – and the earning power of their partner – is far more important to a woman than a man. You don’t earn enough money is the third most important reason on the women’s list,?whereas?it doesn’t feature at all on the men’s list. 有趣的是，女人远远比男人更看重金钱，所以伴侣的赚钱能力很重要。“你赚钱太少了”成为女人分手的第三大理由，然而在男人的分手理由列表上，这点根本不重要。 Its not you, its me: Men tend to be less concerned with giving emotional explanations when they dumped their partner- and are more likely to use technology to let them know. “你没有错，是我自己的问题”：而男人在甩掉自己的女友时不太会使用感性的理由，而是更可能用技术性的客观理由让女友知道。 For men, poor sex and lack physical?compatibility?appears far more important than women for why a relationship has failed. 对于男人来讲，性生活不和谐不够契合是导致两人分手的重要原因，他们比女人更看重这方面。 The third most popular reason for men is they are no longer attracted to their partner and the fourth most popular reason is: We’ve lost that sexual spark. 男人的第三大分手理由是他们的伴侣无法再吸引他们，紧接下来的第四大理由为“我们已经失去激情的火花了”。 Both sexes prefer to end