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智 课 网 雅 思 备 考 资 料 选择智课山西的四大理由！在线咨询 公共部分CSS 都说女儿是老爸上辈子的情人，家有萌娃初长成，爸爸们应该都很 担心吧～看看有爱的爸比想对女儿说的关于婚姻的10件事吧！ I have two daughters. Norah is 4 and Aspen is just 3 months. Their lives look very different than mine did as a child. My father left when I was a 9 years old. I was raised half by my single mother, and half by my widowed grandmother. When I got married, I didn’t know much about what it meant to be in a good marriage and I had to learn a lot of things through trial and error。 我有两个女儿：4岁的诺拉和才3个月大的阿斯彭。她们的童年生活 和我的很不一样。九岁那年，我父亲离我而去。我是由单亲妈妈和寡居 的外祖母一起抚养长大的。当我结婚时，我不大清楚美满的婚姻意味着 什么。但一路摸爬滚打走过来，我从中学会了许多。 Even at their young age, I think a lot about my daughters’ future and whether I’m setting a better example than the one I had. Below is a list of things I’ve learned about marriage that I’d like them to know。 虽然她们现在还小 ，但是关于她们的未来，以及相比我所经历的， 我是否给她们树立了好的榜样 ？对此我想了很多。以下列出的几点是我 从 自己的婚姻中感悟出的，我想告诉她们。 (Author’s Note: I know that views on marriage are changing. This list is based on my own experience in a straight marriage because it’s all I know。) (作者补注 ：对婚姻的看法一直都在变化。以下几点仅是根据我个人 的经验 ，因为这是关于婚姻我所知道的全部。) 1、Don’t let your husband pressure you into sex: Most likely your husband will want sex more than you expect. Don’t let your husband pressure you into things you are not comfortable with. Talk openly about sex with him. Discuss your expectations and try hard to understand his. Although sex is important, be sure that you both realize that it is only one part of your marriage, it isn’t the whole marriage。 不要因为你的丈夫而被迫爱爱：很有可能 ，你丈夫的需求超过了你 的需要。但不要因为丈夫而被迫去做让你觉得不舒服的事。同你的丈夫 坦诚交流性爱。告诉他你的期望 ，同时也尽力理解他的。虽然性爱非常 重要 ，但确保你们夫妻双方都明白 ，这仅是部分，而非婚姻的全部。 2、Don’t lower your expectations of your husband after marriage. Raise them: After marriage, it’s easy to get comfortable. I’ve never understood why this happens, because marriage is the hardest thing I’ve ever done. It’s easy to let things slide after marriage. To expec