以学生成长需求为导向的学校教育改革.ppt

第三节：以学生成长需要为导向的学校教育改革 外国语学院学科教学 曾炎 Lessons we have learnt as fathers The first lesson I think that all of us have to embrace is the idea of responsibility, that the idea of taking responsibility for your actions and taking responsibility for those you love, taking responsibility no matter what the hardship is to be the kind father that our children need us to be. The second lesson that I have taken is setting an example that is for our children because we want to set high expectations for them we also get to set some high expectations for ourselves. It’s great ,it’s great if you have a job, but ,but you can get a better job. It’s a wonderful thing if you get a better job, but maybe you can own a business and create jobs. It’s a wonderful thing if you marry and living at home with your children, but don’t just sit in the house watching the sports all day. So we are glad that you are at home, but engage your child. So many of our children are growing up from the Television set, from the video games. As fathers and parents, we get to spend more time with them, help them with their homework and turn off the TV sets for an hour turn off the video games and remote controls and read a book to your child, that’s how we built that foundation. The third thing we need to do as fathers, pass along the value of empathy to our children, not sympathy but empathy, the ability to stand in someone else’s shoes to look at somebody through their eyes. Sometimes, it is so easy to get caught up in us, in me that we forget our obligations to other people, to one another. You know all our young children, they see that , they see when you ignore or mistreating your wife, they see when you inconsiderate at home, when you distance, when you think only of yourself. So it is no surprise that we see that behaviors in our schools and on our streets, and that’s why we have to teach our young people that there is nothing that we could being kind, there is nothing that we could being fo