DON’T BE SHY, JUST TRY.pptVIP

The story moment Candy, a lovely girl that study in a middle school. There is a really important English speech contest for her whole city next month. Her classmates want her to represent the class in the school contest. Everyone is sure she will win. It’s probably true, Candy is very clever, and can speak English very well. In fact, she always comes top in the school exams. But the possible is that she’s very shy , she doesn’t want to let her friends down, but she’s terrified of speaking in front of other people, and she can’t tell everyone that . She is at a loss what to do. How to overcome shyness Shyness is extremely common, especially among teens . As shy people , most of us are worrying about ourselves –-about how we look, what we say and whether other people will like us—to stop to think about what we can do for other people. But really , that’s what being social is about---the other person ,not us .So how to overcome shyness? * * DON’T BE SHY, JUST TRY ! when she went home ,her mother noticed that she was woebegone(愁眉苦脸的），and asked her : “ Candy, what’s wrong with you? You look so pale .” Then Candy told all to her mother, her mum smiled and said that: “ Dear , don’t worry, you only remember that you are the best, you can do it, that’s enough.” Heard that, Candy smiled . Finally, Candy won the first praise in the contest, and from then on she is not shy any more. Understand Your Shyness Seek to understand your unique brand of shyness and how that manifests in your life. Understand what situation triggers this feeling? And what are you concerned with at that point? Turning Self Consciousness(知觉） into Self Awareness Recognize that the world is not looking at you. Besides, most people are too busy looking at themselves. Instead of watching yourself as if you are othe