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A GUIDE FOR MALE SURVIVORS OF CHILDHOOD SEXUAL ABUSE 1 in 6 boys is sexually abused before the age of 16. The average age for the first time of the abuse is 8 years and 4 months old (1). Why Do I Have To Deal With It Now, If It Happened Back Then? Survivors of childhood sexual abuse may believe that since the abuse happened so long ago it would be better not to rehash the past. They may avoid feelings and memories in order to function in their day-to- day lives. However, the abuse may still be affecting them. Triggers (internal or external reminders of the trauma) may bring up unresolved emotional issues. Some common situations survivors may find themselves in that make them realize they should seek support include: - I am reacting unusually to situations differently than before. - I am having emotional or sexual problems that are not getting any better. - New circumstances have made me more aware of past experiences. If you are a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, know that you are not alone. Survivors have found that recognizing what has happened to them and speaking about their experiences can be one of the most vital components in the healing process. Below is a list of common affects of sexual abuse that may linger with survivors in their adult lives. Men who have been victims of childhood sexual assault may deal with the following:  Anger and Hostility  Anxiety  Depression  Dissociation  Fear  Helplessness  Questions about Sexual Orientation  Isolation and Alienation  Loss of Power, Control, and Confidence  Low Self-esteem  Masculinity Issues  Negative Childhood Peer Relations  Negative Feelings about People and Self  Problems with Sexuality  Self Blame/Guilt  Sense of Inadequacy  Sexual Dysfunction  Shame/Humiliation  Sleep Disturbance  Suicidal Ideas or Behaviors