教育孩子（educate a child）.doc

教育孩子（educate a child） First, from the childs performance to see their own way of Education 1, if your child likes to blame others, because you usually criticized him too much. 2, if your child likes to complain about everything, because you always find fault with him. 3, if your child likes to fight, because you are hostile and compulsory to him. 4, if your child is not good, because you are a lack of compassion. 5, if your child is timid and shy, it is because he is often ridiculed and abused. 6, if your child does not tell you the truth, because you talk to catch the child, dig up. 7, if your child does not know right and wrong, it is because you are autocratic, do not give children the opportunity to be independent and to think. 8, if your child is very low self-esteem, because you are always disappointed in children, can not be patient encouragement. 9, if your child is jealous, sensitive, afraid of injury, because his family is not tolerant and warm. 10, if your child does not like himself, it is because of your lack of acceptance, recognition and respect for him. 11, if your child does not make progress, do not work hard, because you ask him too much, he can not do. 12, if your child is selfish, because you spoil him too much, what to give. 13, if your child does not understand the pains of his parents, it is because you did not teach him to understand others. 14, if your child retreat and escape, because of your contempt and blow. 15, if your child is lazy and dependent, its because you do too much for your child and make too many decisions. 16, if you are under the control of the children, because you dare not strict discipline, always begging the child. 17, if your child lies, lies, because you are not tolerant, like to punish the child. 18, if your child is cold, attacking others, because you are too much for his sarcasm and cold. 19, if your child is violent, it is because you use violence to deal with childrens problems. 20, if your child will not be str