应对宝宝哭闹的四种错误方法（Four wrong way to deal with the baby crying）.docVIP

应对宝宝哭闹的四种错误方法（Four wrong way to deal with the baby crying） 4 wrong way to deal with the baby crying Many parents in the child crying, often feel sad or upset, or worried that children grow up to be a vulnerable person, so they will try to control the behavior of the child crying. But experts say, suppress the child crying, can cause mood can not flow of children, for children EQ harm no ones interest. The following circumstances, whether you are familiar with? Blame method Why are you so careless? Xiaowen careful not to fall, climb up after crying, her mother in the eyes, pain in my heart, anxious about her daughter said: let the mother see you fall? How do you walk so careless! Mother anxious mental inadvertently became a child walking blame careless, so several times after the mother found, now Xiaowen after wrestling first thing up not for comfort, but for fear of the eyes looked at the mother, mother blamed her for fear of. Expert analysis: why Xiaowen in pain after wrestling also feel fear? Guangxi branch of Chinese Gestalt education teacher He Mingqian said, this is because the children in wrestling, parents did not get emotional identity and comfort, not only that, parents also blame the child, so the child did not dare to parents looking to rely on and support. Evaluation method This little thing is crying, why are you so weak? The vast accidentally tripped stool legs, all of a sudden the vast tears brim over with tears. Dad looked at this not strong child, could not help but say: this thing is crying, why are you so weak? The future how to be a man? Expert analysis: any time, parents should not say such words to children. He Mingqian said, because the child may take weak the identity, the word cowardly will enter the childs subconscious, become an invisible force, reduce the childs sense of self value. The sense of self value is low, so the children will deal with things, they would have no confidence or feel powerless. Distraction You see on TV, the bright