如何安慰别人（How to comfort others）.docVIP

如何安慰别人（How to comfort others） 1 everyone has their own way of life 2 do not be slaves of desire 3 get comfortable 4 likes oneself only then to hug the life More than 5 see the world with goodness 6 do not seek worldly honor 7 extremes are inadvisable 8, do not care too much about other peoples evaluation 9 evil pain deep 10, be careful not to live too tired 11 the most important thing is todays heart 12, their own heartache, only their own treatment 13 good mood is created by yourself 14, do what you should do 15 dont always make it difficult for yourself 16 want to open to have a happy mood 170 million never despair 18 there is always a pity in life 19 let go and have a good mood The more than 20 reason to act less impulsive 21 silence can save a lot of trouble 22, only new talent can be assured of contacts 23 Enze of others should bear in mind 24 frustrated not dizzy with success. 25 not guotouhua 26, be good at eliminating misunderstandings 27 do not ignore others Well, negativity is a protective means of self. In times of setbacks, when we are in trouble, when we are attacked, we often need a negative attitude to comfort me. There is a contradiction in her family now, and in a sense it will not make her feel any better in a short period of time. But I suggest you, even when she is in the face of such a situation, the mood has not improved, then, in addition to let her give you a thorough talk, your comfort must be sustained. Otherwise, a moment of comfort, and then a little comfort words, her heart will be even more sad. Originally she has some trust in you, and wants to get some comfort from you, so as to give yourself greater ability to face setbacks, so you have to go on. In addition, I need to remind you that family conflicts are the source of this negative stressor, so its only when her family gets better that shes fundamentally better off. You need to keep track of her family situation so that she can translate her thoughts into actions. The best way is th