父母该不该打孩子（Should parents beat their children）.doc

父母该不该打孩子（Should parents beat their children） You cant beat a child under these conditions Nowadays, people who believe in no bad children, only unqualified parents should not be in the minority, and those who hold this idea will certainly object to beating their children. Indeed, in many cases, children are not allowed. 1., a childs mistake is because parents did not tell their children not to do so before, or parents did not speak clearly. 2. children make mistakes, parents themselves are committing. Mom and dad do not know how to do this aspect of things, and do not have a good example in this regard, do not rush to hit the child. 3. parents cannot beat children in fury. Because at this time, playing the child is often just vent their anger, punishment will often lose sense of propriety, will ignore the cause of the childs mistakes, it is difficult for the child to make it clear why he was hit It is easy to miss and hurt the child. 4., the childs physical and mental conditions with the following special circumstances can not play: exciting behavior, mental disorders of children, very sensitive children, children who have been hurt by feelings. 5. children under 3 are not allowed to fight. According to psychologist Erickson put forward the theory of personality development stage, 3 year old children in the stage of the game, the childs sense of autonomy is very strong, at this stage corporal punishment of children, Can affect their normal physiological and psychological reactions, resulting in physical and mental health of children. No parents in the world do not expect their children to become Jackie Chan, but countless instances have proved that no child has been taught in the beating and beating of his parents. Stick bullying may work, but only temporarily. In fact, Not to beat a child can teach good children. Every parent should make a friend of his child This is an important principle in family education. In order to make the child healthy development, modern