TED演讲语段精华整理.doc

TED 1 Its one thing to work up (激发)the confidence to write honestly about your experiences with love, but it is another thing to discover that your love life has made international news . 2 The moment you admit to loving someone, you admit to having a lot to lose. 3 So rather than that question, I would propose we ask some more difficult questions, questions like:How do you decide who deserves your love and who does not? How do you stay in love when things get difficult, and how do you know when to just cut and run? How do you live with the doubt that inevitably creeps into every relationship, or even harder, how do you live with your partners doubt? I dont necessarily know the answers to these questions, but I think theyre an important start at having a more thoughtful conversation about what it means to love someone. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ 1What struck (strike使震惊，使迷住）me was that I.Q. was not the only difference Grit is passion and perseverance for very long-term goals.Grit is having stamina（恒心）.Grit is sticking with your future, day in, day out,not just for the week, not just for the month,but for years, and working really hard to make that future a reality.Grit is living life like its a marathon, not a sprint（短跑）. （表达）In fact, in our data, grit is usually unrelated or even inversely related to measures of talent. 毅力通常与其他因素无关，甚至与才华的衡量标准背道而驰。 growth mindseWe need to take our best ideas, our strongest intuition, and we need to test them. We need to measure whether we have been successful, and we have to be willing to fail, to be wrong, just start over again with the lesson learned.In other words, we need to be gritty about getting our kids grittier. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Stage fright 怯场 cerebral palsy 脑瘫C.P. our obstacles can only do two things:one, stop us in our tracks or two, force us to get creative. they for