6分钟的英语演讲 致男人的宣言.docVIP

Growing up as boy,we were taught that men had to be tough 从小男孩起，我们学到,男人应该意志坚强， had to be strong, 身体强壮， had to be courageous, dominating-- 有勇气，有支配权-- no pain , no emotions, 没有痛苦，没有情感， with the exception of anger 除了愤怒之外 and definitely no fear 男人什么都不怕 that men are in charge 男人全权负责，主管一切， which means women are not; 而女人不是； that men lead, 男人是领导， and you should just follow and do what we say; 女人应该只是跟随和做男性吩咐的事； that men are superior , women are inferior; 男人带有优越性，女人是低人一等； that men are strong ,women are weak; 男人是强壮的，女人是弱小的 that women are of less value 女人的价值比较小 property of men and objects, 仅是男人的财富和物品， particularly sexual objects 特别是性猎物。 Ive later to know that to be 我后来了解到 the collective socialization of men , 这如上都是男人的集体社会化属性， better know as the man box 更好的称为“男人束缚体” see this man box has in it 看看这“男人束缚体” all the ingredients 所有的成分 of how we define what it means to be a man 这就是我们怎样定义一个男人的。 Now I also to say , without a doubt, 此时我想说，毫无疑问， there are some wonderful, wonderful, 男人身上也有很多美好的，不可思议的， absolutely wonderful things about being a man 绝对棒的品质 But at the time 但同时， theres some stuff 有些东西 that just straight up twisted, 完全是扭曲了 And we really need to begin 我们真的需要开始 to challenge ,look at it 挑战，看看这些男性特征 and really get in the process of deconstructing,redefining, 我们要进行解构，重新定义， what we come to know as manhood , 我们重新认识什么才是男人气概。 this is my two at home ,Kendall and Jay. 这是我家的两个小孩，肯德尔和杰伊。 Theyre 11 and 12. Kendall is 15months older than Jay. There was a period of time when my wife ,her name is Tammie ,and I, 有那么一段时期，我妻子塔蜜和我， We just got busy and whip, bam , boom Kendall and Jay 我们实在是忙得不可开交，用来照顾肯德尔和杰伊 and when then were ab out five and six, four and five 当他们大约五岁和六岁，或者四岁和五岁的， Jay could come to me crying. 杰伊可以来向我哭哭啼啼。 It didnt matter what she was crying about, 当她哭泣，这没有什么问题， she could get on my knee ,she could snot my sleeve up, 她可以坐在我膝上，她的鼻涕流到我的袖子上， just cry ,cry it out . 尽管哭，哭出来。 Daddys got you .Thats all thats important. 有爸爸在你身边爱护你是很重要的。 Now Kendall on the other hand 但换成是肯德尔 and like I