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人生法则将会影响我的一生 　　The laws of life will continue to influence my life 　　Vassily Polyvianny age 12 　　瓦西里?波利维亚尼12岁 　　 　　WHAT IS A LAW? A dictionary de- fines it as a common set of rules established by a state.Each individual in society should accept legal laws and follow them. What then is a law of life? In my view it is a set of personal rules that one should reflect upon and set out to live by. 　　When exploring the evolution of legal laws we may assume that they derive from previous common experiences and situations. Similar to that, setting up personal laws of life is related to thinking about past situations and mistakes and searching for better solutions. 　　What are the laws of life to me？Ｉ started investigating the topic only now, when I am 12 year old.I believe that to determine my laws of life that will give me guidance I have to learn how to live in harmony with those around me, with my family and with myself. I also have to learn how to use the past mistakes and obstacles as useful tools that help me live through. 　　It seems that it works as a sort of pattern where law = my relations with others (teachers, friends)+ my relations with my family (mother, father, grandmother and grandfather)+my relations with myself (I and I). 　　To get along with my family I should keep in mind the situations that could be stressful and cause trouble to those who I love. If I do my best to please my family everybody will benefit.Therefore the Law #1 is: Try to please others, and joy will return to you two or three times as much. 　　Now, my relations with myself... When I get a low grade I am frustrated, but as soon as I start thinking of the situation as a challenge that I face (as for example, Peter the Great who took obstacles as benefits to grow), I feel better. My Law #2 is: Dont be afraid of problems. Problems can always be overcome and make you stronger, and you benefit by paving the way to higher goals. 　　My relations with those around me...I noticed a long time