中英婚俗差异.pptVIP

旧——Something Old “旧”指新娘头上的白纱必须是母亲用过的旧纱，表示不忘父母的养育之恩。 continued ties to her old life Family jewelry veil worn by their mother or grandmother Something Old ... 新——Something New “新”指新娘的白色婚礼服必须是新的，它是纯洁童贞的象征，也标志新娘将开始新的生活。 Success and Hope in her marriage. The easiest category to fill A new wedding dress. Something New... 借——Something Borrowed “借”指新娘手里拿的手帕必须是从女朋友那儿借来的，表示不忘朋友的友谊之情。 From a friend that is happily married Bring lasting happiness Something borrowed... “三媒六聘” 按照中国传统的礼法，男女成亲需要“三媒六聘”，也叫三书六礼。 “三书”指的是礼聘过程中来往的文书，分别是： ★“聘书”——在订婚时交换； ★“礼书”——过大礼时交； ★“迎书”——迎亲时由男方交给女方。 “六礼”是指由求亲、说媒到迎娶、完婚的手续。 “六礼” ★纳礼：男家请人预备礼物向女家提亲、说媒； ★问名：男家在大红庚帖上写下男子的姓名、排行、生辰八字，由媒人送到女方家中。女家若有意结亲，就把女孩的名字八字等写上请人占算； ★纳吉：如男女双方的八字没有相冲相克，则婚事初步议定； ★纳徵（征）：又称过大礼．类似今天的订婚； ★请期：择吉日完婚。旧时选择吉日一般多为双月双日．不喜选三、六、十一月； ★迎亲：婚礼当天．男方带迎亲书自到女方家迎娶新娘。 Before the ceremony Send the brides dowry嫁妆(exe: scissors, rulers, vases) to the boys house tie up the brides hair with colorful cotton threads red skirt and red head-kerchief cry sedan Proper time From June to October Britain —Date Assumed by the woman: Prepare a list and Send invitations Send invitations Contact with the church pastor wedding reception Britain —Wedding Preparations The man: layout of new homes the bride and bridesmaid bouquets the cost of paying the church. Britain —Wedding Preparations **** **** **** No. 3 PART III Wedding Ceremony Chinese Wedding 1. Color: RED ;Present Dajidali. 2. Location：Hotel or the Bridegroom’s home 3.Dress： Bride: a chaplet and official robes （凤冠霞帔） Bridegroom: Kramer brown take（状元服） Chinese Wedding 4.Transpotation: Bride:Red Sedan Chair （大红花轿） Bridegroom: Tall horse （高头大马） 花轿brides sedan Wedding Process fetch the bride（迎亲） 一拜天地 1 bow to the heaven and earth 二拜高堂 2 bow to their parents 夫妻对拜 3 bow to each other Wedding Ceremony： Wedding Process offer a cup of tea give red envelopes lucky candy wine drunk at a wedding feast Wedding Process weddin