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A: Do you have a good relationship with your roommates? B: No, I was in trouble with this matter. A: Me too, I wonder how to solve this kind of problem, it?wiled me from my study. B: Maybe we can ask C and D for help, because they are good friend in the same room. A: Let’s go. C: Hey A and B, long time to see you. D: You look unhappy, what’s wrong? A: We have one question for you. B: Yeah, about the conflict between roommates. C: Oh, youre not alone, as almost all students have problems at times with the people they live with. D: If things arent going well with the person you live with, its worth your time to try to alleviate the conflict. A: Go ahead, we are all ears. C: When voicing your grievances, focus on the problem, not the person. Attacking your roommate will cause further conflict between you, and chances are you wont get what you want. D: Tell me what would you say if your roommates leave her bed all in muddle? B: You are one disgusting slob and I cant stand living with you in this pigpen. D: Why don’t you say like that we obviously have different ideas about how clean this room should be, can we try to compromise?A: What a? euphemistic?way of speaking. C: One great way to diffuse a conflict (and to get what you want) is to let your roommate know that you understand where he or she is coming from and offer sympathy. This may require some thought, as you need to be able to put yourself in his or her shoes. D: Yeah, try! B: I know you have 20 credits this semester, so I understand that you dont have much time to clean the apartment. But can we try to compromise? D: If her boyfriend stay at your room too long that made you annoyed, what would you say in a right way? A: I know your boyfriend is very important to you, and hes a really nice guy! But can we reach a compromise about how many hours he spends in this room? D: Very exactly! When you confront someone, its very hard to keep the other person from feeling attacked. You can minimize this by saying