临终前最后悔的五件事(中英文对照版)复习过程.docVIP

临终前最后悔的五件事（中英文对照版） 最近有一篇文章在Facebook、twitter上频频被转，名叫“Nurse reveals the top 5 regrets people make on their deathbed”。它的原文是一名叫Bronnie Ware的护士写的。Bronnie Ware专门照顾那些临终病人，所以有机会听到很多人临终前说出他们一生裡最后悔的事。她作了一个概括，有5件事是大多数人最后悔的。 很好奇为什麽这麽多人转载它，也许，因为这是一种你永远无法提前经历的事吧。你不会时常面对别人的死亡，你更不怎麽时常有机会听到一个临终前的人告诉你他最后悔的事是什麽。而即便你听到，你又会觉得自己来日方长。我们似乎永远无法感同身受；也许，只有我们自己的生命到了尽头时，我们才会意识到自己究竟错过了什麽，最后悔什麽。 我最近收到不同朋友发来的中英文不同版本，现综合如下转发与大家共享。 ********************* Top Five Regrets- By Bronnie Ware For many years I worked in palliative care. My patients were those who had gone home to die. Some incredibly special times were shared. I was with them for the last three to twelve weeks of their lives. People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality. I learned never to underestimate someones capacity for growth. Some changes were phenomenal. Each experienced a variety of emotions, as expected, denial, fear, anger, remorse, more denial and eventually acceptance. Every single patient found their peace before they departed though, every one of them. When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently, common themes surfaced again and again. Here are the most common five:? 1. I wish Id had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me This was the most common regret of all. When people realize that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people have had not honored even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made. It is very important to try and honor at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realize, until they no longer have it.? 我希望當初我有勇氣過自己真正想要的生活，而不是別人希望我過的生活。 這是所有後悔的事中最常聽到的。 心理學上有個理論，較之那些我們做過的事，人們後悔的往往是那些沒做的事。所以當人們在生命盡頭往回看時，往往會發現有好多夢想應該實現，卻沒有實現。你的生活方式、你的工作、你的感情、你的伴侶，其實我們多少人過著的是別人希望你過的生活，而不是自己真正想要的生活——又可能，一直以來你把別人希望你