新编大学英语第二册 unit2 communication_problems.ppt

What did you dream to become in your childhood? Who do you usually talk about when you get together with your intimate friends? Introduction to Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus is a manual for loving relationships in the I990s. It reveals how men and women differ in all areas of their lives. Not only do men and women communicate differently but they think, feel, perceive, react, respond, love, need, and appreciate differently. They almost seem to be from different planets, speaking different languages and needing different nourishment. Throughout this book, the readers will learn practical techniques for solving the problems that arise from our differences. This book is not just a theoretical analysis of psychological differences but also a practical manual for how to succeed in creating loving relationships. Martians Martians value power, competency, efficiency, and achievement. They are always doing things to prove themselves and develop their power and skills. Their sense of self is defined through their ability to achieve results. They experience fulfillment primarily through success and accomplishment. Martians dont read magazines like Psychology Today, Self, or People. They are more concerned with outdoor activities, like hunt, fishing, and racing cars. They are interested in the news, weather, and sports and couldnt care less about romance novels and self?help books. Martians Talking about a problem on Mars is an invitation for advice. Another Martian feels honored by the opportunity. This Martian custom is one of the reasons men instinctively offer solutions when women talk about problems. When a woman innocently shares upset feelings or explores out loud the problems of her day, he wants to help her feel better by solving her problems. He wants to be useful to her. Venusians On Venus, everyone studies psychology and has at least a masters degree in counseling. They are very involved in personal growth, sp