- 1、本文档共5页,可阅读全部内容。
- 2、原创力文档(book118)网站文档一经付费(服务费),不意味着购买了该文档的版权,仅供个人/单位学习、研究之用,不得用于商业用途,未经授权,严禁复制、发行、汇编、翻译或者网络传播等,侵权必究。
- 3、本站所有内容均由合作方或网友上传,本站不对文档的完整性、权威性及其观点立场正确性做任何保证或承诺!文档内容仅供研究参考,付费前请自行鉴别。如您付费,意味着您自己接受本站规则且自行承担风险,本站不退款、不进行额外附加服务;查看《如何避免下载的几个坑》。如果您已付费下载过本站文档,您可以点击 这里二次下载。
- 4、如文档侵犯商业秘密、侵犯著作权、侵犯人身权等,请点击“版权申诉”(推荐),也可以打举报电话:400-050-0827(电话支持时间:9:00-18:30)。
查看更多
美文诵读一二
美文诵读一: Treat people with kindness
If you treat people with kindness and respect, theyll be more flexible and responsive. We all want love and respect but sometimes we dont want to give love and respect, especially when we are at odds with someone and were feeling hurt and angry.
If you want a better relationship with anyone Stroking is mandatory. If you look down on people and treat them badly, theyll retaliate and appear just as annoying and hostile as you expected. If, in contrast, you treat people with kindness and respect in spite of your anger, theyll nearly always be far more flexible and responsive to your feelings and point of view.
Some people are resistant to this technique. I shouldnt have to be nice to him. He doesnt deserve it. is a common opinon. Others are Im just too angry to be nice to her, I cant think of anything positive to say about him, and Why should I be nice to her when shes treated me like this. But if you decide to convey genuine respect in the heat of battle, your efforts will be far more effective.
How to use Stroking
* Give the other person a genuine compliment. Comment on some positive quality or trait they have.
* Let the other person know that you like, respect, or admire them, and value their friendship even though youre both feeling angry or disagreeing with each other right now.
* Convey warmth and caring through your body language, showing that youre interested, open and receptive, as opposed to frowning, crossing your arms across your chest, and shaking your head in a judgemental way.
But do you have to stroke people who really are jerks? Isnt it better to be honest and let people know what idiots they are? The answer is that you dont have to treat anyone with respect. You can respond to people any way you want to. It just depends on the kinds of relationships you want.
The Power of Admiration
Sometimes we all have to express negative feelings and tell people something that may upset them. Stroking is invaluabl
您可能关注的文档
最近下载
- 年度赛课外拓展阅读《走近创世神话感受中外异同》教学设计1.docx
- 新版ISO13485-2016医疗器械质量管理体系全套GMP手册程序记录文件.docx
- 心理咨询师(中科院心理研究所)10套题汇总题库-下(多选题汇总).docx
- 北京市轨道交通房山线岩土工程勘察报告.doc
- 微积分(二)(浙江大学)中国大学MOOC 慕课 2021章节测验期末考试答案.docx
- 2023年电子科技大学成都学院计算机科学与技术专业《计算机网络》科目期末试卷A(有答案).docx VIP
- 第一部分LDTH系列电磁流量计.PDF
- 李前程编《建筑力学》(第2版)第六章.ppt VIP
- 心理咨询师(中科院心理研究所)10套题汇总题库-上(单选题汇总).docx
- Defensics健壮性测试工具测试方案.docx
文档评论(0)