中美父母与孩子间交流的不同要点分析.ppt

The differences in conflicts and communication between parents and children in China and America The similarity Parents view their child in their own thinking. Parents think their childs dressing is of no identity. Parents are always nagging. Parents cant know their childs world well. The similarities Children think their parents are out of style. Children do not really regard parents as good friends. Chidren dont keep the lines of communication with their parents open. In some way ,children think their parents are strict with them. The differences As Chinese parents Chinese parents are good at delivering history education, paying attention to the influence of the history and culture. Chinese parents tend to take control of their children. Chinese parents will pay more attention to the failure of the child. Sometimes, Chinese parents are spoiling their children. The exchange between Chinese parents and children is like delivering a lecture. The differences As American parents American parents focus on cultivating childrens autonomy. American parents will minimize the error of a child. American parents pay attention to the mining of potential aspects of children. American parents give their children the love and support, but sometimes they are so blind. After arguing,American parents will find a good way to have a talk with their children. They spend more time to make friends with children. Summary Different cultural backgrounds make different concepts of education, they are not absolutely good or bad. The most important is that both parents and children should keep the lines of communication open and try to stand in other’s shoes. * *