创新英语unit-3-The-value-of-friendship.ppt

3.Troughout life ,we rely on small groups of people for love ,admiration,respect,moral support ,and help. Amost everyone has a network of friends:co-workers,neighbors,and schoolmates. While both men and women have such friends,evidence is accumulating that indicates men rarely make close friends.Men are sociable and frequently have numerous business acquaintances, golf buddies ,and so on .However, friendship does not merely involve a sharing of acticities ;it is a sharing on a very personal level . Customarily,men have shied away from close relationships in which they confide in others . By bottling up their emotions ,men deprive themselves of a healthy outlet for their negative feelings. 我们在一生中都有依赖于一些小团体来获得友爱、赏识、尊重、道义上的支持和帮助。几乎人人都有一个“友谊网”：同事、邻居和同学。尽管男人和女人都有这样一些朋友，但越来越多的迹象表明，男人不容易交上挚友。男子喜欢社交，常与大批同仁、高尔夫球友等人来往。然而，友谊不仅包括参与活动，也包括在纯粹私人的范围内分享对方的一切。在一般情况下，男人总是避开那种可以向对方交心的亲密关系。男人因为掩盖自己的情感而丧失了抒发消极情绪的健康途径。 4. People choose some friends because they are fun to be with; theymake things happen. Likewise, common interests appear to be a significant factor in selecting friends. Families with children. It is normal to be friends eople who have similar lifestyles and it is perfectly acceptable to select friends for special qualities as long as there is a balanced giving and taking that ia mutually satisfying. 人们择友，有时因为情趣相投。朋友使你的生活生机勃勃。同样，共同的兴趣是择友的一个重要因素。例如，有孩子的家庭之间容易相互吸引。生活方式相似的人互相交友也是正常的。选择有特性的人交友，这是无可厚非的，只要给予与索取保持平衡，双方皆感满意。 5.Very close and trusted friends share confidences candidly. They feel secure that they will not be ridiculed or derided, and their confidences will be honored. Betraying a trust is a very quick and painful way to terminate a friendship. 亲密而互相信任的朋友，他们彼此赤诚相待。他们不会互相戏弄和嘲笑，因而心里踏实自在。他们之间的这种信任也会受到旁人的尊重。背信弃义则会迅速而痛苦的断送友谊。 6.?? As friendships solidify, ties strengthen. Intimate relationships enrich peoples lives. Some components of a thriving friendship are honesty, naturalness, thoughtfulness and some common interests. 随着有益的日益巩固，友谊的纽带也更加坚固。亲密的友谊会使人的生活丰