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听力高手应该不讲话（A good listener should not speak） A good listener should not speak Most people still prefer to say than listen. Of course, some people say, no, no, no, I dont think so. Of these people who feel bad about themselves, the vast majority are afraid to speak in front of many people. But there are also people who are afraid to speak not only in front of many people, but even in the face of a few. These people dont like to talk to small groups, or they may say, no, no, no, even if only two people, I still dont speak very well.. So people like this will always feel that their words are not to say, or will hate to deal with people, and more or less and talk to people who have a tense atmosphere. However, no matter how such people are not good, do not love to speak, as long as he can and have a pleasant talk, listen to the people, and in a suitable environment, then maybe he will be off the reel in imperceptibly. Its my job for me to listen to others. For the last forty years, Ive never met anyone who likes listening better than saying. Because even though he doesnt speak very well, he still prefers to say better than listening. Is not to say, because they do not speak, so I love to listen and say love, in psychological counseling to me, some are afraid of getting along with people, who did not dare to speak in front of others. But here, I can chat with me for almost an hour without stopping. There is a saying, speak and listen.. But this does not mean that one likes to listen. It means that the person who can speak can stand in the others position and understand each others feelings and thoughts. But even the articulate man, said love or love to listen. This is because, compared to listening, speaking is psychologically easier and easier. People know that when you are in trouble, you may feel a lot lighter if you can tell others. In addition, when a person has something lucky, happy, and what exciting information, there will be So, on the contrary, what kind of cir