5 five parenting styles（5五父母教养方式）.docVIP

5 five parenting styles（5五父母教养方式） 考虑到缺乏condensus关于如何培养孩子的今天，似乎很难挑出风格的育儿。从一个角度来看，父母的养育方式是一样多的。然而，与儿童有关的某些内容可以大致归类。一个有用的分组在五父母教养方式e.e.lemasters上市提供：烈士，PAL、警察、老师和辅导员，体育教练。我们将讨论这些。1考虑到在怎么养育孩子这个问题上尚未有一种统一一致的观点，（所以）从中选择一个公认的方式似乎是非常困难的。从某种角度讲，有多少父母就有多少种养育方式。然而在与孩子相关的某些因素是可以大体分类的。e.e.lemasters”提供了五种教育孩子的方式的分类，它们分别是：殉难型伙伴型警官型教师辅导员型和体育教练型。这种分类方式非常有用。下面我们将逐一进行讨论。 作为殉道者的父母 2杀死父母相信“我会为我的孩子做任何事。”Sime的常见例子杀死父母习惯等对他们的孩子或他们的父母接后：NaF的孩子而不是让他们记住自己的事情；父母购买几乎任何孩子的要求；和父母永远做孩子想做的事。2殉难型（溺爱型）殉难型的父母相信”我愿意为孩子做一切事情”。习惯性的伺候和跟在孩子屁股后面收拾东西；唠唠叨叨不停抱怨孩子而不是让孩子自己记着一些东西；几乎满足孩子所有的购买欲；总是做孩子所有想做的事。以上这些是殉难型（溺爱型养育方式的常见例子问题）。 3父母教养方式提出了一些问题。首先，在杀死母集是不可能实行的目标，所以父母总是感到内疚。另外，杀死趋于也操纵。此外，有必要询问那些一贯否定自己需要的人是否能享受养育子女的作用，以及在这种情况下父母与子女之间是否有可能亲近。3这种养育方式存在一些问题。首先，这种方式的目标无法实现， Therefore, parents will often feel guilty. Here, the reward of the martyr is manipulation. in addition The parent as pal 4 Some modern parents, mainly those of older children and adolescents, feel that they should be pals to their children. They adopt a laissez-faire policy, letting their children set their own goals, rules, and limits, with little or no guidance from parents. According to LeMasters, pal parents apparently believe that they can avoid the conflict caused by the generation gap in this way.. Some are in the modern youth as parents of children, think they should have as friends. They have adopted a laissez faire approach that allows children to set their own goals, rules and limitations, with little or no parental guidance. According to.LeMasters, partner parents clearly believe that in this way they can avoid the effects of the generation gap. Problems 5 Pal parenting is unrealistic. For one thing, parents in our society are responsible for guiding their children s development. Children deserve to benefit from the greater knowledge and experience of theit parents, and at all ages they need some rules and limits, although these change as children grow older. Much research points to the conchusion that laissez-faire parenting is related