用最短的时间了解一个人---fbi阅人术（With the shortest possible time to understand a person ---fbi read human art）.docVIP

用最短的时间了解一个人---fbi阅人术（With the shortest possible time to understand a person ---fbi read human art） How do you know this person in the first few minutes of a conversation with a stranger? How to get closer to each other? How to find a favorite topic for each other? How do you make the other person willing to speak? It all has to rely on careful observation, and we cant help mentioning the recent celebrity Joe Navarro (JoeNavarro). He served as the FBI agent for 25 years, is the body language behavior of counterintelligence team of experts, now retired to become the famous American Poker coach. The key is to have the winning 70 - 30 rule , 70% of which came from interpersonalintelligence, gambling skills accounted for only 30%. At the end of last year, he published the table of reading people (ReadEmandReap) on the new book, he served as officers during the polygraph crime people trained to observe, how to teach game player through observing the eyes, gestures, see each others thoughts, at the table to give a fatal blow. Observation can be practiced by day after tomorrow First of all, the most important thing is to practice your observation. One of the most effective ways is to recallgame. You can practice anywhere and anytime. For example, when you walk into a room, close your eyes and remember as much as possible what you see before you walk into the room. For a long time, you can also like Navarro, go to a friends house to the front door, has put the surroundings to see clearly in front of the door on the street stopped what brand of car, the house next door has a male in weeding, another room placed in front of the two newspapers....... The other way to practice is to go further. When you look at your surroundings, ask yourself, what do you mean by that? For example, the weed killer should live in that house because the street in front of the door does not park any weed control company vehicles. Whether the answer is correct or not is not the point. What really m