杰出父母教育孩子只做三件事（Distinguished parents teach their children only three things）.docVIP

杰出父母教育孩子只做三件事（Distinguished parents teach their children only three things） Good parents to educate their children, only do three things First thing: how to cultivate good parent-child relationship Good relationship is better than many education. What a good relationship with their children when the parents of their childrens education, it is easy to be successful; what time and child relationship is not good, it is easy to fail for childrens education. And a good parent-child relationship, the key lies in positioning: The 1, the improper judge, learning to do a lawyer Some parents see their children out of the question, when they could not wait to play the judges, which is very dangerous. The childs inner world rich and colorful, parents should actively influence and educate their children, do not understand the inner world would be impossible. Understand the first secret is the child care self-esteem, maintain their right to become a trusted and respected friend. That parents treat their children as lawyers as to treat their clients to understand their inner needs, and always to safeguard their legitimate rights for the sole purpose. The 2, the improper referee learning to do cheerleaders In the arena of life, only to their children. Both parents can not replace the child, not the free hand to when the referee, but should give children a good competitive state power, namely cheerleaders power. This can help children build self-confidence, and this is the core of the family education. Parents do the childs cheerleaders, should be good at discovering and praising children, but also to guide children correctly in the face of failure, frustration before the childs comrades do. The 3, the improper Trainer learning to do mirror Only know their own children to overcome their own, but they usually only based on the feedback of others to know yourself, then parents feedback effects that mirror the role is very important. Do not Trainer, learn to mirror to help children imp