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如何提升魅力（How to boost charisma） 1 they listen more than they talk. Ask questions. Keep eye contact. Smile。 Frown. Nod. Response - not words, but expressions. Thats what it takes to let people know that theyre important. Then, when youre talking, dont offer unsolicited advice, unless youre asking for it. Listening is more likely to show that you care more about them than offering unsolicited advice, because when you give advice, most of the time you make the conversation about your conversation, not about what they are talking about. Dont you believe what I said? Who is? Thats what Im going to do....... Are you still someone else? There are some important things to say to say -- and definitions for the important things is important to other peoples things rather than to yourself is the most important thing only in you. 2, they do not listen selectively to certain things. Some people - I assure you that you know such people - will not listen to anything they consider to be less than their own in some ways. Of course, you talk to them, but that particular tree that falls down wont make any noise in the forest, because no one really listens. Very attractive people listen carefully to everyones thoughts, and they dont care how low our positions, social status, or levels are. They make us feel that we have something in common with them. Because we do have something in common: we are all human beings. 3. They put their affairs aside. Dont check your cell phone. Dont stare at your monitor. Dont focus on anything else, not for a moment. If you are busy with other things, then you will never be able to get in touch with others. Give all your energy as a gift to someone else. This gift is something that very few people can give. This gift alone will make others want to be around you and remember you. 4, they give before they accept it - and usually they never accept it. Never think of what you can achieve. Focus on what you can offer. Giving is the only way to build relationship