教育孩子要遵守不占有原则（Teach children to abide by the principle of non possession）.docVIP

教育孩子要遵守不占有原则（Teach children to abide by the principle of non possession） Principle of non occupancy Many years ago, a friend of mine had children, and we made an appointment to congratulate him. I bought two large diapers that day and went with me. To the friends room, I found his wife fat in a circle, but many of my friends haggard. When you see the baby, you take turns to hug the child, you say a word, I am talking about, like a little more than a little bit of a little more like my mother?. When children go to my hands, I not to know how to appreciate favors said: this child is not your. Although my friend and wife are unhappy, they know that I usually like to play jokes and I dont pay much attention to them. Of course, I dont want to do popular paternity tests. In fact, years ago that sentence is not really a joke, it tells an important educational principle, that is, the principle of non possession. This principle reflects the basic view of parents: what is the relationship between oneself and the child?. Many parents think the child is China I born a baby, who? The educational result of such a parental view is the possession of the childs thoughts and emotions. In fact, as long as we think about our growth experience a little, we know how wrong and objective this view of parents is. Our thoughts and feelings never really belonged to our parents. Each of us has our own independent thoughts and emotions. They are influenced by their parents, but not by their parents. Then who does the Baby belong to? In order to answer this question, the main founder of Cary Gibran novels, Arabia modern art and Prose (Kahlil Gibran) wrote a well-known poem, translated into Chinese after bing. On children Kahlil Gibran None of your children is your children It is the children that life craves for itself. They came from you, but not from you Even though they are with you, they do not belong to you. You can give them love, but you cant give them thought. Because they have their own