沟通艺术之——问（Questioning the art of communication）.docVIP

沟通艺术之——问（Questioning the art of communication） ??? ask questions, questions learned a lot, we come on. A, a meaningful question Unlike eyes and ears, each of us has only one mouth, so to say nothing is to ask the same question. Before you ask questions, think carefully, instead of asking questions at random. Because every communication reflects the self-image, to impress people mature or rough abruptly completely on their own. This is especially important in communicating with superiors or senior people. ??? for example, the boss thinks a manager of the project schedule is not reasonable, so that he needs to consider some other factors in the core of the meeting, he immediately retorted: that other people are unable to change the schedule, how to do? This question is somewhat lack of thinking, reflects his thinking ability, communication ability, resource integration ability, strain capacity and the ability to overcome difficulties such as weak, and if the habit in the course of time, also set up in front of other colleagues without authority. ??? in addition, in public, some people love a challenge others, such as leadership, authority or research and so on, so will put forward some point of the problem that taste of curry favour by claptrap, can only deepen the negative impression of others of their own, will not achieve the purpose of making others xiabulaitai. Such cases are common in campus presentations, live lectures, keynote speeches, answering reporters questions, interviews, and dialogue between leaders and employees. ? two, looking and asking, listening and asking ??? sight smell to ask, ranked third, that make good smell and foundation, and ask but also to look and smell, which look to listen to, speak less ask. Of course, this is not inconsistent with the active participation in the discussion, for example, in the brainstorming process, you need to play the initiative, creativity and coordination, and put forward good ideas, even if sometimes only as a