天涯何处无芳草 conflict.pptVIP

Conflict 1.The youth vs parent Buds ideal was to marry Deanie and go to an agricultural college with her, then return to run the family farm after graduation. But his father wanted him to study in Yale.because he had been disappointed by his daughter he took Bud as his final hope to satisfy his desire to be with the family fame and glory.This caused Buds bad behavior in Yale.he played a lot,drunk a lot ,failed all his exams,and even had affairs with Italian girl. 2.the old vs the new Deanie was a good girl ,she obeyed the norms in that time.Just as her mother told her that boys bear no respect to a girl who was open about sex and cared nothing about virginity, and they would never want such a girl to be their wife.So she keeped her virtue and dreamed of nothing but marrying Bud. Ginny was rebellious to her father’s authoritarian rule in the family and the conservative norms in the town.She got herself into a sort of trouble that required one of those awful operation and an annulment.She was the talk of the town and wasnt accept by them. 3.marriage On one hand,Mrs.Loomis believed that sex would ruin her daughters chance of marrying Bud and no nice girl had sexual desires for a boy.So she encouraged her not to give up her virginity. In conclusion, Mrs.Loomis wished for such a marriage.On the other hand, Buds father encouraged him to abstain from sex with Deanie, because, if Deanie were to conceive a child by Bud, they would have to marry. Obviously, he disapporved their marriage at that time. 4.sexual desire Traditionally,people believed that girls should keep virtue before they got married. When Deanie and Bud were together,Bud was feeling of being nut about her sometimes ,but this was not accepted by Deanie because this wasnt a good girls behavior.This enhanced Deanies inner struggle—about whether to give Bud what she and he both seemed to want, or whether to behave in a more socially acceptable way, avoid the risk of pregnancy, and follow her mother