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我爱你,你却爱肉 　　Some relationships run 1)aground on the 2)perilous 3)shoals of money, sex or religion. When Shauna James’s new romance hit the rocks, the 4)culprit was wheat. “I went out with one guy who said I seemed really great but he liked bread too much to date me,” said Ms. James, 41, a writer in Seattle who cannot eat 5)gluten, a protein found in wheat, barley and rye. 　　 　　Sharing meals has always been an important courtship ritual and a metaphor for love. But in an age when many people define themselves by what they will or won’t eat, 6)dietary differences can put a strain on a romantic relationship. The 7)culinary camps have become so 8)balkanized that some9)factions consider interdietary dating taboo. 　　 　　10)No-holds-barred 11)carnivores, for example, may share the view of Anthony Bourdain, who wrote in his book Kitchen Confidential that “vegetarians, and their 12)Hezbollah-like 13)splinter faction, the 14)vegans ... are the enemy of everything good and decent in the human spirit.” 15)Returning the compliment, many vegetarians say they cannot date anyone who eats meat. Vegans, who avoid eating not just animals but animal-derived products, take it further, shivering at the thought of kissing someone who has even sipped honey-sweetened tea. 　　 　　Lisa Romano, 31, a vegan and school psychologist in Belleville, N.Y., said she recently ended a relationship with a man who enjoyed backyard 16)grilling. He had no problem 17)searing her vegan burgers alongside his beef 18)patties, but she found the practice unenlightened and disturbing. Her disapproval “would have become an issue later even if it wasn’t in the beginning,” Ms. Romano said. “I need someone who is ethically 19)on the same page.” 　　 　　While some eaters may elevate morality above hedonism, others are suspicious of anyone who does not give in to the pleasure principle. 　　 　　June Deadrick, 40, a lobbyist in Houston, said she would have a hard time loving a man who did not share her fondness for mu