4.2 Definition of Cultural Patterns数字时代的商务英语写作.pdf

Cultural Patterns 4.2 Definition of Cultural Patterns Welcome back. In some cultures, for example, it is considered bad luck for the groom (future husband) to see the bride (future wife) before the wedding ceremony on their wedding day. It is also customary in some cultures for the bride’s family to give a wealth gift to the groom’s family, although it is customary for the groom’s family to pay for the wedding celebration. In China, it is very traditional for parents to select a husband or wife for their child, although this practice is becoming less popular. The youth of many western countries often select their own husbands or wives, sometimes without the approval of their parents. You may consider why they happen and why they are all acceptable. For instance, a westerner invited a Chinese girl to have lunch and take a tour around the British Parliament. In fact, the girl didnt have the lunch just because when the westerner asked her Are you hungry?” and the girl answered no. Then they didnt have lunch together. The second time, the girl was invited to a restaurant, when the host asked the same question “Are you hungry?” she answered “not really”. The host ordered a light meal for her. What is the cultural shock? How to solve it? Can you give your analysis? In the first situation, the westerner used his question as an invitation. The girl understood it only as a question. According to the Chinese tradition, the man should have invited her to lunch since their appointment was to have lunch first. In the second situation, the westerner used his question as a question rather than an invitation. According to the Chinese tradition, the man should have ordered plenty