2019-2020学年浙江省丽水市高二(下)期末英语试卷.docxVIP

2019-2020学年浙江省丽水市高二（下）期末英语试卷 第二部分阅读理解（共两节，满分25.0分）第一节（共3小题；每小题2.5分，满分25.0 分）阅读下列短文，从每题所给的A、B、C、D四个选项中，选出最佳选项，并在答题卡上 将该项涂黑. 11. （7.5 分）Recently/ said something like this to my 13-year-old son： Ive told you a thousand times, just do your work and we can stop fighting.Why dont you just listen to me? I hate having to shout to get you to pay attention.11 Creating a peaceful relationship with our children is a huge test of emotional intelligence-and particularly empathy.ln the above example, there are a number of emotional intelligence failures.! was angry,so I was reacting unconsciously instead of responding intentionally.Under my anger was a feeling of powerlessness and fear.l was scared that he is not self-motivated and wont do well.I reacted to the fear by attacking.! was trying to use my force of will to make him obey. The first rule of emotional intelligence： When people feel pushed^hey resist.I was blaming himjnterpreting his lack of interest in homework as a kind of personal attack on me and implying that he was making me behave the way that I behaved.I was focused on what I wanted and my perspective. Cd like to focus on this last point,because it turns out that this lack of perspective-taking-this lack of empathy-is the key to easing parent-child tension. When I increase empathy and relook at the situation with compassionj see a different story. Perhaps he was afraid,too.Perhaps he felt powerless,too.Perhaps he*s learned the exact same pattern Ive modeled： When youre afraid,attack. That moment of curiosity is the doorway to empathy.and it*s a game changer.Empathy is not actually a complex skill.Its a basic part of the social brain.That little pause of curiosity is a way to step out of the stress reaction,and step into being the person we choose to be. Hopefullyrl,ll remember to take that all-important pause and ask myself： I wonder whats really going on for him right now. （1） What phenomenon is described in paragraph 17 The parent-child tension. The poor emotion