Cross cultural comparison of language in use.pptVIP

求职应注意的礼仪 求职时最礼貌的修饰是淡妆 面试时最关键的神情是郑重 无论站还是坐，不能摇动和抖动 对话时目光不能游弋不定 要控制小动作 不要为掩饰紧张情绪而散淡 最优雅的礼仪修养是体现自然 以一种修养面对两种结果 必须首先学会面对的一种结果被拒绝 仍然感谢这次机会，因为被拒绝是面试后的两种结果之一。 被拒绝是招聘单位对我们综合考虑的结果，因为我们最关心的是自己什么地方与用人要求不一致，而不仅仅是面试中的表现。 不要欺骗自己，说“我本来就不想去”等等。 认真考虑是否有必要再做努力。 必须学会欣然面对的一种结果被接纳 以具体的形式感谢招聘单位的接纳，如邮件、短信 考虑怎样使自己的知识能力更适应工作需要 把走进工作岗位当作职业生涯的重要的第一步，认真思考如何为以后的发展开好头。 Thank you Cross cultural comparison of language in use I. The cooperative principle Quantity Make your contribution as informative as is require4d (for the current purpose of the exchange). Do not make your contribution more informative than is required. Quality Try to make your contribution one that is true. Do not say what you believe to be false. Do not say that for which you lack adequate evidence. Relation Be relevant Manner Be perspicuous Avoid obscurity of expression. Avoid ambiguity Be brief ( avoid unnecessary prolixity). Be orderly. II.Politeness principle ( by G. Leech) see page 292to 293 of our textbook by Jia Being tactful, generous, modest and sympathetic toward others. For explanation see page 507 by Gu Yueguo in the book Culture and Communication by Hu Wenzhong the green one III. Face theory In order to describe politeness, we need the concept of face. As a technical term, face means the public self-image of a person. It refers to the emotional and social sense of self that everyone has and expects everyone else to recognize. Politeness, in an interaction, can then be defined as the means employed to show awareness of another person’s face. In this sense, politeness can be accomplished in situations of social distance or closeness. Face wants Within their everyday social interactions, people generally behave as if their expectations concerning their public self-image, or their self wants, will be respected. If a speaker says something that represents a threat to another individual’s expectations regarding self-image, it is described as a face threatening act. Alternatively, given the possibility t