Iforgiveyou.pptVIP

* I Forgive You 12 One of the hardest things about forgiveness is making that first move especially when you havent spoken to the person who hurt you for a while. But remember theyll probably be happy to hear from you. They might even be impressed that youve done what theyve wanted to do for years. But keep in mind youre doing this for you just as much as for them, so dont be upset if they dont react as you hoped. 单词： move n.步骤、行动 ;v.取得进步、改变主意、采取行动 The management have made no move to settle the strike. upset 心烦的、苦恼的、不适的 She was upset that he had left without saying goodbye. react 反应、反对（常与to或against连用） The market(股市）reacted by falling a further two points. 词组： for a while一会儿、一段时间 hear from接到某人的信、电话等 hear of sb./sth./hear sth. of sb./sth.听说/得知（某人/某事） not hear of sth.出于善意拒绝（或不允许）某事 hear sb. out听某人把话说完 keep/bear in mind将….记在心中、记起、考虑 翻译： 要宽恕别人，最难的一点是迈出第一步 —— 如果你已经好长时间不和伤害你的人讲话，就更是如此。但请记住，他们很可能会很高兴得到你的消息。他们也许甚至会因为你做了他们多年来想着要做的事而深受感动。但谨记你这样做是为他们，同样也是为自己，所以即便他们的反应有违你的期望也不要难过。 13 Of course, some people don‘t believe they’ve done anything wrong, or don‘t care, so telling them you forgive them would only frustrate them and you. But that doesn’t mean you can‘t find forgiveness in your heart. In fact, that’s what true forgiveness is: letting go of your anger and hurt, becoming at peace with what happened and moving on . 单词： frustrate使懊丧、使沮丧 词组： let go（of sth.)放弃（某事） at peace （with）（与…）保持友好、和谐；平静 翻译： 当然，有些人并不认为自己做错了什么，或者根本不在乎，因此如果你说要宽恕他们，那只会让两个人都懊恼。但这并不意味着你自己的心里没有宽恕。实际上，这才是真正的宽恕：不再生气，不再感觉受伤，心平气和对待发生的事，继续自己的生活。 14 The more you nurture your resentment, the more unhappy youll become. Unless you learn to develop the lost art of forgiving, youll always remain a victim, not just of people whove done you wrong, but also of your own emotions. 单词： nurture使发展；培养 Children nurtured by loving parents. resentment愤恨、怨恨 to feel/harbour/bear resentment towards/againtst sb.对…感到/深怀/有怨恨 victim受害者 词组： do sb. Wrong中伤某人、冤枉某人、虐待某人 翻译： 怨恨越深，越不开心。如果不能学会宽恕这门“失传的艺术”，你就将永远是受害者，不仅是伤害你的人的受害者，也是自己情感的受害