Approaching to the AmericanComparing to the Chinese cult.pptVIP

* * Approaching to the AmericanComparing to the Chinese culture The ordinary communicative remarks * Excuse me! * Thank you! * I love you! * Yes, all right! * And so on. Excuse me, thank you Always say “Thank You” after getting one’s service, and say “Excuse Me” to obtain one’s attention. The most frequently used phrases in public places are I’m sorry and thank you. First say excuse you before asking the way and other problems. And say sorry to get others’ Attention. If you want to pass by a person, and he is so near to your arm, do not forget to say sorry at the time of your passing by. Someone did not notice but blocked your road, a sorry will make him step aside. But do not push other people by hand.In the United States, people pay attention to the distance of the body. Exceeding the certain distance will make him/her feel invaded. Chinese tradition is that the close relative do not thank, and thanking is just considered as an outsider on the contrary. In the United States, husband and wife, parents , son and daughter, there is any help all saying thank you, the outsider is also. The time that mother dress her child, the child accepts with saying thank you habitually; the husband feeds the wife, and she ends with saying thank you. In American you accept the service of anyone, you should say thank you in spite of obtaining or not. Polite remarks: The formal situation with strangers: 你好。Hello! Hi! 你好吗？How are you? 今天天气很好。It is beautiful today. 认识你很高兴。Nice to meet you! Acquaintance with colleagues: 你今天看上去（气色）很好。You look good today. 你的衣服很漂亮（或我喜欢你今天穿的衣服）。 I like your dress/shirt (Lady:dress Man:shirt) 你很漂亮（多用于女性）You are very pretty. I love you ! In Euro-American country, it’s the common phrase to express the affection among the family and friends. At Euro-American family, the member expresses the affection usually by using I love you, and embracing mutually, which makes the Chinese feel too d