高效能人士的七个习惯(英文).ppt

Most mistakes with family members are not the result of bad intent. It’s just that we really don’t understand. We don’t see clearly into one another’s hearts. When you understand… You don’t judge. Each person needs to be loved in his or her own special way. They key to making deposits, therefore, is to understand – and to speak – that person’s language of love The technique of emphatic listening is just the tip of the iceberg. The great mass of the iceberg is a deep and sincere desire to truly understand. HABIT 6 SYNERGIZE Building family unity through celebrating differences You must be able to say sincerely, “The fact that we see things differently is a strength – not a weakness – in our relationship. Once you realize that each problem is asking for a response instead of just triggering a reaction, you start to learn. You become a learning family. HABIT 7 SHARPEN THE SAW Renewing the family spirit through traditions Every family must take time to renew itself in the four key areas of life: physical, social, mental, and spiritual. If you organize your family life to spend ten or fifteen minutes a morning reading something that connects you to timeless principles, you will make better choices during the day – in the family, on the job, in every dimension of life. Sharpening the saw is the highest leverage activity in life because it affects everything else so powerfully From Survival…To stability…To Success…To Significance I don’t know what your destiny will be, but one thing I know: The only ones among you who will really be happy are those who have sought and found how to serve. ~ Albert Schweitzer ~ ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS CREDITS The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families by Stephen R. Covey 1998 Simon Schuster UK Ltd. (London) Slide presentation by Ken du Pisanie Slide presentation by Ken du Pisanie Written by Stephen R. Covey You’re Going to be “Off Track” 90% of the Time. So What? Good families – even