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夸孩子的时间和分寸（Praise your childs time and discretion） Strong self-esteem is a key factor to encourage children to succeed? New research shows that blindly praise and dont let the child future success and happiness. The Wall Street journal columnist Sue Shellenbarger and Jason Greene as the parents of Greene and Cara are discussed. Some recent research pointed out that too much praise the child may bring all sorts of risks. However, for parents, to praise too little and too much between the boundaries, this is as difficult as under immense pressure to go bungee cords. Live in the city of New York Carla Green (Cara Greene) is one of the three - to eight year olds. The mother has been very cautious, do not deliberately let the childrens self expansion, because Green worried that it will let the children grow in her heart who have been told theyre wonderful and opinionated that they can do anything young people who have seen the feeling. However, she also want their children to have healthy self-esteem. Green said: let the children self inflated no benefits for them. At the same time, I also hope they have enough confidence to meet any challenge they face. Now, psychologists for self understanding more and more in-depth, more carefully, this may let the parents when take the high rope a little easier. Some results are as follows: self acceptance of children is low may actually be a good thing, at least for a short period of low degree of recognition will be so. While the childrens praise without considering the environmental factors outside the family, there may be harmful to children. If the child for others to have a realistic view of themselves (rather than exaggerated) understanding, are often better able to adapt to the environment. Father: foreign parent class? How to educate children? Today to see the news, give the child to remind parents: long time playing mobile phone a lot of harm? What to buy mobile phone to give you a child? There is no limit to the use of mobi