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如何改变内向性格（How to change introversion） First, faith: establish a win-win (equality and mutual benefit) faith If you want to have good interpersonal relationship, you must have equal and mutual benefit. In vogue, it means win-win thinking. In dealing with interpersonal relationships, there are several modes of thinking: 1. I win, you lose: The education we grew up in is strengthening this idea. Do you want another good exam than sports, you have to run faster, jump higher than the others, you will be a champion. In short, only more than others, only win, can make us happy. We regard life as an arena. To succeed, happiness must go beyond others and leave others behind. Besides, the selfish person holds the same idea that I win you lose. 2. I lose, you win: People who lack confidence and lack self-esteem often have this idea. They did not dare to stand without desire nothing, sacrifice personal interests at the expense of settling, seeking peace. 3.: On the face of it, no one can benefit from doing so. Nobody seems to be doing that. But some people must think so and do so! Dog in the manger, I cant get you dont want, in retaliation, willing to sacrifice themselves, also want to put you down. 4. win win: Win-win is based on the idea of equality and mutual benefit. Profit yourself, but do not harm other peoples interests. Dont put themselves and others in opposition, both you and I are not hostile, but with a trench comrades, share joys and sorrows together to create a better future. I win you lose (egoistic), I lose you win and lose (compromise) (both) the mode of thinking, are unable to make the people have good interpersonal relationship. If you want to have good interpersonal relationship, you must have a win-win thinking and have equal and mutually beneficial ideas Introverts improve their relationships (two) Two, attitude: grasp the balance of love and courage. A win-win situation means that everyone wins and both sides benefit. To win a win-win situation, love and c