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纠错的十大误区（Ten misunderstandings of error correction） Ten misunderstandings of error correction ************* Misunderstanding 1: praise too much or too little. You put your dirty clothes in the basket? Hey, you did a great job! For training The self-esteem of children; parents sometimes turn their children into addicts who are addicted to praise. By drum of praise Kids dont pursue goals for their own satisfaction. He will be very ordinary What others expect spinless, otherwise, he may not want to complete its share of Obligation. Excessive criticism is also very harmful. If you only point out how a child fails, lose Defeat will become his mental shadow. The proportion of praise and criticism should be three to one. If approved Your rating is too high, and your compliment may be insincere or exaggerated The prize rate is too low, then you may be too demanding. Check the authenticity of the praise. Usually a simple thank you is enough The. Also consider the age of the child. A 6 year old child learns to clean the window even if it is wiped Should be praised for the stain. And for a sloppy 10 year old boy, It shouldnt be, because he can do better. Misunderstanding 2: the child as a small adult treat. Your two elementary school kids bring terminator II from the video store, too much! Full of violence, you objected. All the other children have seen it, they argued. Lets raise our hands. OK, two. Yeah, one, we won. Children lack the judgment and experience as you do. Children are in your home during childhood The more democratic the court is, the more overbearing and arrogant the children will become. Dont feel that every rule needs to be discussed. Toddlers just pay more attention to action Instead of preaching, because I said to do it is enough to explain. When the child gradually When you grow up and begin to doubt the rules, you can explain to them. But let him Its clear to you that youll have the last word. Misunderstanding 3: temper tantrums The older boys were fighti