心理沙龙_爱情和依恋类型（_ psychological salon love and attachment）.docVIP

心理沙龙_爱情和依恋类型（_ psychological salon love and attachment） Part 1 types of love and attachment Physiological behavior system The emotional interaction between Attachment people, to some extent, is similar to the emotional interaction between a baby and her mother. Giving (Care) people see each other as children who need to be taken care of in some way When sexual love (Sex) develops to a certain stage, sexual behaviors begin to occur. The attachment behavior system plays a very special role. The whole stage of life from cradle to grave is attachment, and a persons attachment type has evolved since the day it was born through the interaction with its caregivers. His attachment type will forever influence his behavior in intimacy. Infants - caregivers and adult love partners have some common characteristics: * they feel safe when they are on the other side and can respond to them. They have intimate, personal physical contact * feel insecure when you are not close to one another and share your findings with the other * will fondle the other side of the face, and have shown mutual infatuation and attention * will be light body Types of love and attachment Attachment type: a secure, safe lover It is estimated that nearly 50% of people in the relationship show a safe attachment type. Characteristics of safety attachment types: Have a sense of trust. Less lonely. Prefer to maintain long-term relationships with others Enjoy the pleasures of sex, especially in long-term relationships. Self respect and respect for others. Seek social support when faced with stress. When a lover is under pressure, he or she can give them a generous support, an appropriate heart and a desire to be the same. Positive, optimistic and constructive in interaction with others. Tend to follow the beliefs of their parents. In comparison, there is less fear of death. ? under the stress of positive emotion, it will become more creative and cognitive. Two attachment styles: anxious / ambivalent / ambivalen